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Resources for Male Victims of Abuse

ireneadlercatwoman:

everywitchway:

mogai-watch:

sexuallymonsterous:

How to Recognize Abuse

**Emotional Abuse of Men

**Sexual Assault of Men and Boys

**Men Can Be Victims of Abuse, Too

**Domestic Violence Against Men – Know the Signs

**Information for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse

**Help for Battered Men

**Battered Men, Battered Husbands

**For Male Survivors of Rape and Sexual Abuse

**Male Survivors of Incest and Sexual Child Abuse

**Help for Men Who Are Being Abused

Help Lines (Phone and Text Chat)

National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 (or 1-800-787-3224 for TTY)

National Dating Abuse Hotline: 1-866-331-9474

National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673

National Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1-800-237-8255

Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men: 1-888-743-5754 (US and Canada)

Hopeline Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1-800-784-2433

National Hotline for Victims of Crimes: 1-855-484-2846

National Human Trafficking Hotline: 1-888-373-7888

Polaris Human Trafficking Text Line: Text “BEFREE” to 233733

**1in6/RAINN Chat for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse

Support Groups

**1in6 Support Groups

Male Survivor Support Groups

Pandora’s Aquarium – Chat (includes chats specifically for men)

Pandora’s Aquarium – Forums (includes forums specifically for men)

How to Find a Shelter

Domestic Shelters Search (shelter locator with filters to find shelters specifically for male survivors)

SAFE (located in Austin, TX, but states they can help people find resources/shelters in their area)

How to Find a Therapist

**Male Survivor Therapist Directory

Mental Health Services Locator

Resources for and About the Abuse of Kids/Teens

Love is Respect Hotline: 1-866-331-9474 (Hotline for teens)

Darkness to Light Helpline (Sexual Abuse): 1-866-367-5444

Darkness to Light Text Line: Text “LIGHT” to 741741

ChildHelp USA National Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-422-4453

Children of the Night Hotline (Children in Prostitution): 1-800-551-1300

National Runaway Safeline: 1-800-786-2929

Covenant House Nineline (Homeless Youth): 1-800-999-9999

Stop it Now Hotline: 1-888-773-2362 (for adults concerned about the welfare of a child)

Jennifer Ann’s Group (for teens experiencing dating violence)

Other Resource Lists 

(While I tried to include the most helpful resources I could here (i.e., resources that lend themselves to one-on-one communication, individual reading, etc.), there are plenty of other great resources, including regional resources, listed in these links. Some of the resources are specific to men and others aren’t, but they are all helpful for male survivors.)

**Male Survivor (regional, international, and online resources)

**Husband Battering: Men and Domestic Violence

**Help for Battered Men: Online Resources

**Help for Battered Men: National and International Resources

**Help for Guys: Help for Victims (some resources for men, many general resources)

This is so important. 

SLAMS that reblog

This is amazing @sexuallymonsterous you are a good person for putting this list together. 

askthedoctorhiggsbury:

probablyatrashcan:

polkadotsdesign:

monochrome-flight-feathers:

artist-rayne:

the-panic-button-collector:

dimespin:

“Why do you beat yourself up so much over little mistakes?”

This is such a good illustration of emotional abuse

Just a reblog to spread the most UN noticed abuse, be aware

and reminder for everyone to be patient with your loved ones who apologize constantly, or have a really emotional reaction to something that seems insignificant to you.

Another post that breaks my theme. But I really like seeing problems myself and other people have being explained in such a wonderful way

mmmmmm this explains why I have a hard time socializing with groups of people I don’t know

Haha it me

Do you see the possibility of a poly relationship between Ron, Hermione and Luna?

Only in one specific way; if Ron was dating both but they weren’t dating each-other. I think Hermione and Luna have personalities that just clash too much (and not in the ‘they mesh really well’ kind of way like with Ron and Hermione). 

No offence to people who do ship Luna and Hermione, but it’s not my cup of tea. 

Thanks for the ask, anon. 

For the ‘have you ever’ ask- Have you ever been to America? Have you ever gone skinny dipping? Have you ever been to a political protest? Which do you prefer: Italy or France?

1. No. And I probably won’t be doing so anytime soon, since the guy in charge seems to be a fascist cartoon character (no offence to my American followers, but it terrifies me that the wotsit with bad hair is in charge of the nuclear codes). 

2. No. Apart from when I have a bath, obviously. The UK is so cold most of the time that it’s freezing to go in the water. 

3. Yes. When I was at Uni, I went on a protest to stop a gay man getting deported to a country where he would likely be arrested and/or murdered just for his sexuality. The Tories are killing people and they don’t care. 

4. I’ve been to both, and I enjoyed both. But I prefer Italy because I prefer Italian food over French food. My apologies to my French followers; you guys are awesome too. 

Thanks for the asks, anon. 

Hello! Quick shipping question, do you ship Hermione with anyone other then Ron?

Not really. I don’t think Hermione really clicks with anyone the same way she does with Ron. I think most people find her annoying if they spend any amount of time around her. 

Ron likes Hermione, even though her flaws make her very difficult to like. Unlike most other people, Ron actually finds Hermione’s annoying qualities to be attractive. 

Thanks for the ask, anon.