Of course! Since you didn’t specify whether you meant asexual,
aromantic, or both; I’ve decided to go with asexual.
Ron had always felt a bit unusual. His mother had been so happy when he
was born, squealing ‘finally; a daughter!’. But Ron didn’t feel like a
daughter; he hated wearing dresses, and was always envious of his brothers for
getting to wear jeans.
Ginny had felt the same way, but the opposite. She didn’t mind dresses,
and would happily give Ron the jeans mum gave her. They were roughly the same
size.
At first, their mum simply thought Ron was a tomboy, but after a while,
they started to realise what was going.
Ron and Ginny came out as Trans when Ron turned nine. Both their parents
gave them hugs, and assured them that they loved them regardless (they just
wanted their children to be happy). All of their brothers made sure to look out
for them (with Percy even drafting progressive laws for when he got into
government).
Meanwhile, in Hampstead, Hermione Granger was getting sick of being
given jeans to wear. She wanted to wear skirts, and stay in with books instead
of running around the garden getting muddy. She didn’t enjoy being referred to
as ‘The Granger’s son’.
Being Hermione, she read up on the subject. She progressed from biology
books in her parents’ bookshelf to books about theory about gender identity
from a local library. Eventually, she understood.
Hermione came out as Trans shortly thereafter. Both her parents assured
her that they’d support her no matter what, and that they loved her. Hermione
smiled as she wept happily into her mother’s shoulder.
First year at Hogwarts. Harry was immediately supportive of Ron, and
Hermione after they become friends. Dean, Seamus and Neville were all
supportive too; and always made sure to not make Ron feel uncomfortable in
their dorm.
Draco Malfoy was still a jerk, but he always called Ron and Hermione by their
preferred pronouns. It wasn’t much, they agreed, but it was something at least.
When puberty began to hit, Ron and Hermione were baffled by all those
around them. Why was everyone being so weird round each other, all of a sudden?
Why were so many boys talking about girls in that way? And vice versa. It was
so… odd.
Whenever other boys asked Ron who he wanted to sh*g, he looked confused
and said ‘No-one’. The other boys gave him a weird look, but Harry clapped Ron
on the back in support, and glared at the other boys to drop the subject.
Ron tells Hermione about this, and verbally wonders whether there is
something wrong with him. Hermione says that she doesn’t think there is
anything wrong with him, and (after all) she’s like that as well.
Ron and Hermione trying to research the topic in their spare time, and
eventually coming across the term ‘Asexual’ in a muggle book on sexuality.
Ron and Hermione both feeling really happy that they have something in
common that no-one seems to have.
Ron and Hermione starting to worry in fourth year, because they’re now
aware of how much they fancy each-other, but it’s… not in the same way
everyone-else goes on about their crushes.
Both of them despairing because they don’t think the other will fancy
them, since they don’t realise asexual don’t automatically mean aromantic as
well. Both of them also being confused because ‘how can I be asexual if I fancy
them as well, even if it’s not in that way?’. And how does that also relate to
them both being trans, as well?
Ron and Hermione eventually letting their feelings become more open as
sixth year draws to a close, and eventually becoming a couple after the war
ends.
Ron and Hermione having a talk where they reinforce that they both love
each-other but not really in a sexual way. Both of them being happy that the
other loves them.
The two of them researching some more in the muggle world, and coming to
an understanding that asexual doesn’t automatically entail aromantic. Both of
them being really happy about knowing this.
Ron and Hermione being themselves, and being supported and loved by the
people they care about.
Trans ace Ron and Hermione, everyone.
Thank you for the ask, anon! Hope you liked those!