It gets even more complicated when you say ‘I’m British, not English’. (No offence to my American followers, you guys are awesome).
HOLD ON!
Teach my American ass, please! Because your tags have me questioning everything I thought I knew.
It’s been my understanding that to be British means you’re from Great Britain. To be English means you’re from England.
All English people are British but not all British people are English.
Like JKR and David Tennant, they’re from Scottland so they’re Scottish not English. People from Wales are Welsh, not Scottish or English but they’re all British because Scotland, England, and Wales form Great Britain.
That’s my understanding of it all.
Now, I would figure people from Cornwall are English because it’s in England. But they’re not? They’re Cornish?
Is it an official thing or an understanding?
Like here in New York there’s an understanding that the term “New Yorker” is reserved for people from the NYC area. If you live in Upstate NY you’re “From New York” not a “New Yorker”. They can call themselves New Yorkers and technically wouldn’t be wrong since they are from NY state but they’ed get side-eyed.
Is it that kinda thing where people from Cornwall could technically call themselves English but it’s goes against decorum or is it officially stated that people from Cornwall are Cornish, not English.
Are there other places in England where people are not considered English but… whatever they’re called?
I was taught there were three kinds of British: English, Scottish and Welsh, never any mention of
Cornish.
(And that people from Northern Ireland are not British but from the UK.)
How wrong was I taught?
@pynki Yes, you are correct on much of that. The reason I brought up Cornwall is that it isn’t really ‘English’. If anything, it’s more similar to Wales and Scotland than England (on early maps of Britain, it was even referred to as ‘West Wales’, despite Cornwall being connected by land to England rather than Wales).
It’s fairly simple. Cornwall is one of the six Celtic nations of North-West Europe (the others being Scotland, Wales, Ireland, Brittany and the Isle of Man). Cornwall was an independent country right up until the Norman dynasty of English Royalty (in the 1000s), and still has a unique culture which is separate from England; complete with its own language (which is becoming more widely spoken after it became ‘extinct’ a few centuries ago), it’s own flag (see below) and it’s own national saint (St. Piran, who has a saint’s day on 5 March).
I don’t blame you for getting confused. Most people who aren’t from a Celtic background don’t know that Cornwall doesn’t even consider itself English. Heck, most of the English don’t even consider Cornwall to be non-English. The Cornish tourism board referred to it as ‘The Cornish used to be independent, but the English forgot’. Many Cornish people consider England to start at the Tamar River, which separates Cornwall from the English county of Devon.
Many people in Cornwall don’t consider themselves to be English, but either Cornish, British, or some mix (i.e. Cornish-British). We have an ancient history that stretches back into the time of legends (King Arthur’s Camelot is rumoured to have been in the Cornish town of Tintagel, for example). We have our own national cuisine (Cornish Pasties being a favourite, of course), and our own form of tartan (yellow checked) which is often used for our own form of kilts.
The Cornish have largely been ignored by the history books due to English domination (I believe the Cornish language was deliberately stamped out, and went ‘extinct’ in the 1700s, until a resurgence in the 20th century revived the language). Although the so-called ‘Cornish Diaspora’ is enormous, stretching across the world from California to South Africa to Australia. The Cornish are now considered a official minority, and Cornish national foods are now protected under law.
Hope that cleared things up!
@headcanonsandmore Oh wow, that’s… kinda sad. To have a whole culture and people ignored like that.
I can empathize. A few friends and did a DNA test and ancestry thing and they were confused as to how I was, I forget the exact number but something like 30% Native American but the map that came along showed My ancestors being on the island for hundreds of years, only immigrating to the US very recently, like my grandparents recent.
I had to explain to them the Columbas didn’t land on an uninhabited island, and that 30% is the Taino Indians that originally inhabited the island before Spain took it over. Hell, Puerto Rico didn’t become the official name of the island until 1898. Historians believed the Taino people had gone extinct until DNA testing proved them wrong. It’s very interesting, it was shown that the indigenous gene is passed down through the mother, so during the Taino genocide when they killed off the men they thought that was the end of us. Nope, they inadvertently preserved the Taino bloodline by raping and marrying off the women.
And recently there’s been a movement in PR to bring back the Arawakan language our ancestors used to speak, because shocker, Spanish isn’t the native language of Puerto Rico.
So I completely get your need to distinguish yourself as Cornish, not English. To want to hold on to your culture even thou a “greater nation” tried to stamp it out.
I never knew there were 6 Celtic nations, I thought it was just Ireland, Scottland, and Wales. (TBH never heard of Wales until I got into Arthurian legend as a teenager. Legit squealed at your mention of Camelot and High-key jealous you’re that close to where Camelot could have been. How Awesome is that? ) I thought Brittany was just the old-school name for Britain and never even heard of the Isle of Man.
They don’t teach that kinda stuff here in America. The only reason I was taught the difference between the UK, Britain, and England was because I asked my history teacher one day after class because I was curious. He was awesome, we sat there for like an hour while he taught me the difference and about the Tudor dynasty. I was really fascinated by Henry the VIII. We’re taught the political side of history, what caused what war and how it ended, but never the personal side I was more interested in so he humored me.
And national foods protected under law? Is that like how Champaign can only come from a certain region of France and Tequila can only come from Tequila, Mexico otherwise it has to be called something else?
@pynki Tell me about it. As a History nerd, it deeply upsets me that most of my own history is largely unknown.
Colonialism sucks. I hate the fact that cultures were eradicated simply because another culture thought them ‘unworthy’. It’s awful that so many cultures had their histories erased due to the machinations of colonial powers. I’m glad that the previously-repressed cultures are beginning to flourish again.
Nah, Brittany’s a part of France with a Celtic past. It’s called ‘Brittany’ because the ancient Celts were called ‘Britons’ and eventually that led to their lands being called similar things. The Celts moved back over to France from Britain in the 5th century AD, to get away from invaders. The Isle of Man is an large island inbetween Great Britain and Ireland; it’s home to one of the oldest parliaments in the world (but is more known nowadays for motorbike racing).
Aw, thank you! I do think it’s pretty cool that I live so close to all these myths and legends. My home town even has a myth about a massive dragon living nearby. Arthurian legends and old Celtic myths are sort-of part of the stonework in my local area, so I guess I never really noticed it until I moved into England for university. I suppose you don’t realise what you have until it’s not there anymore. Cornwall features quite heavily in the old Celtic (and Arthurian myths), and it’s got tonnes of myths that are still prevalent today. St. Michaels Mount, for example, is a small island off the south coast, and is home to the myth of ‘Jack the giant killer’, who killed an evil giant called
Cormoran that lived on the island.
Yeah, the Celtic nations thing is only really recognised in Europe. Most of the rest of the world isn’t that aware of it. From what I’ve gathered from Tumblr, most people don’t even know that England and Britain aren’t the same thing. That was really good of your teacher to explain it to you; the personal side of history is often ignored. Oh, I love the Tudor period too! (Although we get taught it all the time in British schools, so most people get bored of it).
Yep. Same sort of idea. Cornish Pasties have to be made using a Cornish recipe, or the manufacturer has to just call them ‘pasties’ instead. Same deal for Cornish clotted cream. It’s a way to make things easier for the local producers, as well as preventing the market getting swamped with shoddy knock-offs.
People, please be careful. There are also people tracking children and people and putting bids on them based on their profile pictures on whatsapp, tracking and kidnapping them. Especially young children, so please be cautious, especially parents who have their children as their profile pictures.
Please pass this on to everyone so that they are aware of the danger. I don’t how it is all around the world but I know it can’t just be here so please please spread the word. Thank you.
I keep getting these like twice a week. Please reblog!
I get these constantly good to know my instinct to block them were good ones
i wish men understood that when women are talking about feminism and rape culture and shit, it’s not just a political conversation. it’s not about being a “social justice warrior” or whatever. it’s about our actual lives being shaped by misogyny since childhood, and the daily reality of living in fear of violence. this isn’t a fucking game or philosophical debate. this is our fucking lives.
this post is picking up like 100 notes per minute its outta control
“You’d be surprised”, said Xaldien, who just lost four followers and received a lovely “men can’t be raped” anon shortly after reblogging this the first time.
Yowch, disgusting.
If I don’t reblog this, assume I’m dead.
Always reblog this
If you Dont reblog this if u see it then i cant call u my friend
IF ANYONE TELLS ME THAT MEN CAN’T BE VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND RAPE, I AM SICKENED BY THEIR MERE PRESENCE ON MY BLOG.
If you disagree with me, unfollow my blog, block me and never look at my blog again.
If you want to debate about this or send anon’s about this, I will reply but your actions have consequences.
Out of 19000+ followers I have, only one of you actually reblogged about this issue, yet a lot of you have reblogged and liked a picture by playboy about catcalling and that how men should never do it.
Additionally, I have received abuse in my ask box (which I will be answering when I can) and threats. In particular death threats and rape threats.
I can see the real problem here already. Male domestic violence and rape is just invisible in our society because we don’t want to talk about this because it just damages the status quo of this fucking website.
I’m a male victim of child sexual abuse. We matter. Please, reblog this.
Please never forget male victims are real and it can happen to everyone/anyone
Make sure the romance is there on both sides people
Screw people who don’t believe in male rape.
Everyone can be raped and denying that because of your childish, pathetic hatred for men is quite frankly disgusting.
We should care about our mens just as much as our womens.
I can’t believe there are people who won’t reblog this…
Having a physical body = capable of being raped
Male rape victims are (unfortunately) as much a thing as female rape victims.
No joke, earlier today, I accidentally got tagged by someone in a Bellamione post which had Harmony, Dramione, Bellamione, Cissmione, and Fluermione shippers with their hands reaching out towards a text box reading ‘Hermione deserved better than Ron’.
I didn’t comment (since it had the right tags on it; ‘sh*t post’, etc.), but it sure did anger me a lot.
I mean, I don’t want to kink-shame anyone, but how can anyone genuinely think that Hermione should have ended up with the person who tortured her (and almost killed her) instead of the person Hermione canonically fell in love with?
It just seems so problematic as a ship, and completely up-ends what the characters were like in-canon.
No offence to those who ship it, but it just isn’t my cup of tea.
(Thanks for the explanation, anon)
@call-me-hopelesss Don’t worry about it. I know you didn’t mean to. I decided not to comment on it, since I avoid fandom and ship wars as much as possible.
@headcanonsandmore Oh, you saw that post as well? The one with the hands? It was in the Hermione Granger tag and that’s why I saw it.
I know I shouldn’t defend Ron at Hermione’s expense but I want to respond by making a “Ron deserves better than Hermione” meme just like that one. I know I shouldn’t, but I really want to.
@ronandhappiness Yep. I got very angry over it. Seriously, why do people prefer Bellatrix (Hermione’s torturer and almost-murderer) over Ron? Do they really hate Hermione that much?
Wait; why would it be in the Hermione Granger tag? That seems…iffy. Don’t they realise that some people who ship Hermione don’t want her paired with someone who tortured her and tried to kill her repeatedly?
I wouldn’t recommend doing that. I know it seems so alluring, but try to avoid going full-on Hermione bashing as opposed to Hermione-critiquing.
No joke, earlier today, I accidentally got tagged by someone in a Bellamione post which had Harmony, Dramione, Bellamione, Cissmione, and Fluermione shippers with their hands reaching out towards a text box reading ‘Hermione deserved better than Ron’.
I didn’t comment (since it had the right tags on it; ‘sh*t post’, etc.), but it sure did anger me a lot.
I mean, I don’t want to kink-shame anyone, but how can anyone genuinely think that Hermione should have ended up with the person who tortured her (and almost killed her) instead of the person Hermione canonically fell in love with?
It just seems so problematic as a ship, and completely up-ends what the characters were like in-canon.
No offence to those who ship it, but it just isn’t my cup of tea.
(Thanks for the explanation, anon)
@call-me-hopelesss Don’t worry about it. I know you didn’t mean to. I decided not to comment on it, since I avoid fandom and ship wars as much as possible.
to my fellow freshman girlies out there, go parties in groups, don’t walk alone late at night, and if you sense some shady shit going on don’t hesitate to interfere. trust your gut. people are getting sicker by the minute and nothing seems to be changing anytime soon.
PS: CHECK YOUR LOCAL LAWS REGARDING WEAPON PURCHASING
I’m not lying fuck men omfg
as a former RA, who has seen way too much of this shit, it is important to highlight that most of these assaults will not be someone grabbing you from behind a bush or something – a lot of the weapons used against you will be social convention and alcohol/drugs.
it will be at parties. surrounded by people, where you lose sight of a friend and you’re surrounded. it will be guys “making sure to bring you home” while you’re drunk. it’ll be “come on over and let’s watch a movie”, it’ll be so many insidious things.
please always push back from any pressure or challenge to your boundaries. GET LOUD. your physical and mental health is SO much more important than how “cool” you seem. make a fuss, and it might make things awkward, but it’ll be so much better than the alternative. i’ve had so many of my residents come back for the night, so regretful about staying silent while a guy felt her up because she didn’t want to rock the boat or “ruin the mood” of the party. DO IT.
keep a friend, a trusted friend, preferably a girl, and use the goddamn buddy system.do not let your buddy out of sight. keep together at all times, and not just at parties – even at casual outings. new roommate? talk to them about how you want to stick together and make sure nothing happens.
do not go anywhere alone for the first month (this is also just a good practice to meet new people and find new friends lol). go to campus-run events, which are usually more tame and supervised (and still fun!).
know the red flags, and always be cautious of going alone with any man – ESPECIALLY if they’re older. that includes going to parties, movies, even out to lunch.
i don’t want to scare people at all, i really want you to be safe. know that there are campus resources if things do happen, but when it comes down to it, CALL THE POLICE. campus police and counselors can help you deal with trauma and change your classes so you’re away from your assailant, but they’re ultimately working for the university that doesn’t want to report assaults. grab a friend to stay with you to support you – hell, if you live in a residence hall, most RAs have been trained with crisis counseling and will stick with you to the end, and CALL THE POLICE.
pepper spray is a good start, but half the battle is knowing the warning signs and sticking together, and never being afraid to fight back.
also like… start checking your guy friends who do this type of shit and not just when it’s a girl you personally care about