pynki:
headcanonsandmore:
You know, we probably could have avoided the whole Lavender situation if Harry had just told Hermione that Ron found out she had snogged Viktor Krum.
But why would you want to?
I really liked Lavender and Ron.
I mean… Parvati’s considered the prettiest girl in their year. Hermione’s the smartest and Lavender… is Parvati’s best friend. She’s the only Griffindor girl in her year that didn’t go to the ball with a champion, one could argue that Lavender could have felt a bit in the shadow of her roommates and that’s something Ron could relate to.
Ron being shown the appreciation he deserves was great to finally see.
And TBH I don’t really care that Hermione’s feelings got hurt. Truth be told if Hermione had just been honest about the nature of her and Krum’s relationship from the start it would have been old news and not the bombshell it ended up being.
Sure they still would have happened, but all those emotions that fueled his urgency with Lavender would have been dampened with time and he might have treated the whole thing with a bit more tact.
I just think it would have been interesting to see how it played out if Harry HAD just told Hermione.
I have…mixed feelings on Lavender. On the one hand, she did show Ron some genuine appreciation at a time where he wasn’t getting much (one of the first times she flirts with him is just after Hermione had been ignoring Ron whilst pointing out all of Harry’s fanciable qualities- great move, Hermione, that’s gonna go down well…). Lavender did clearly like Ron a lot, and was clear about her intentions.
On the other hand, Lavender is somewhat grating at times. She’s a bit of the ‘girly-girl’ stereotype, which I think JK Rowling was well aware of when writing the character. Lavender was the polar opposite of Hermione, and therefore JK Rowling went out of her way to show Lavender as annoying, somewhat vapid, and a little over-the-top when it came to her relationship with Ron.
I actually preferred the way she was written in the books prior to HBP- she wasn’t in the spotlight as much, but still came across as fairly down to earth (albeit a little silly) in much the same way Parvati did. I think Rowling just upped her ‘annoyingness’ factor to encourage us to want Ron to break up with her and end up with Hermione.
With each re-read of the book, I too find myself less sympathetic to Hermione’s situation during Ron’s time dating Lavender. Really, she brought the whole thing on herself by not showing Ron appreciation and support in the times where he needed it most, not to mention keeping the full extent of her relationship with Viktor Krum a secret from him.
If Hermione had just been honest with Ron about Viktor Krum, this whole situation could have been avoided, or (like you say) Ron’s relationship with Lavender would have been less based on urgency and might have ended better for both of them.
Hermione kept it from Ron and, when he discovered it, it hit him like a ton of bricks. He had insecurities already, and now he finds out that his worst fears about Hermione and Krum were, in fact, confirmed. And the news was delivered to him by his younger, more popular, sister (who also happened to be their mothers’ favourite) while she virgin-shames him for his lack of romantic experience.
The whole event could not have been any worse for Ron’s already-minuscule self-esteem.
i fully believe that Ron was saving himself for Hermione. By sixth year, he was more aware of his growing feelings for her, and was starting to get hopeful that she might see him as more-than-just-a-friend. She invited him to Slughorn’s party with her (of course, Hermione made it clear that it wasn’t really a date, but it was something).
When he discovers that Hermione had already kissed Krum, it made it seem like she had only asked Ron to the party because she pitied him. Not because she liked him as anything more than a friend. After all, she’d been going on about how fanciable Harry was, and she’d already snogged Krum- she must have a thing for really good Quidditch players. And, after Hermione made it seem like she thought Ron could only be a good keeper using a luck potion, well…you can see the way Ron would put two-and-two together…
And speaking of Viktor Krum, does anyone-else find it quite significant that (when Ron suspected that Hermione was dating Krum) he still remained friends with her, and didn’t go on at her about it? By comparison, when Ron starts dating Lavender, Hermione reacts by physically attacking him with a flock of ravenous birds (which leaves lasting scars and cuts), and then refusing to talk to him. Even when he’s trying to speak to her after the Christmas break, she still shuts him out and calls him by the derogatory nickname ‘won-won’ whenever she’s referring to him. She even flares up at Harry when he tries to get the two to reconcile (something which, after the Christmas break, Ron would have been happy to do).
And Hermione had the nerve to say Ron has the emotional capacity of a teaspoon….
I’m sorry to go on a rant about this, but I really dislike the way that JK Rowling wrote the whole Lavender-subplot of HBP. She referred to it as her way of ‘making Ron worthy of Hermione’. Which, considering how much this already-self-hating character is put through the mill during this subplot, leaves a very bad taste in my mouth.
If anything, it seems to me like Ron is getting punished for going out with the ‘wrong’ girl, despite the fact that Lavender actually showed him appreciation and was clear about her intentions towards him, in contrast with the ‘right’ girl who gave him mixed-signals at best, avoided showing him appreciation because she was worried about her feelings surfacing, and hid her relationship with someone-else from him.
Because how dare Ron Weasley look for some appreciation from girls aside from the authors self-insert who seemed to think that Ron should just know that she liked him? (Word of advice, Hermione- he’s not a mind reader, and he’s too self-doubting to make the first move. Stop worrying about being too obvious and SHOW HIM YOU LIKE HIM ALREADY!)
I’m don’t hate Hermione as a character- she is one half of my OTP after all- but sometimes her attitude towards Ron drives me up the wall.